Monday, December 24, 2012

Home for Christmas...

This December, Ruth and her entire family moved into her brand new home.  Please take a few minutes to read her letter of gratitude to her donor Philip.


Look at her new door and windows!!!
Dear Philip

RE: Sincere Gratitude
Praise the Lord so much.  I wish to send you this letter  to express my most sincere gratitude for all you have done for me and my family. I do not know how to tell you about my past, since I have got the good things now, but in the past I had a lot of challenges which you have washed away from me.
Since my childhood I stayed with my mum, our father could not even take care of us which caused our mum to quit her marriage because the father did not care at all. Worse still he was very violent. She could not stand this. She moved to a very small rented house. Her major aim was to make sure that she feeds us so that we do not die. We did not eat to have enough but to survive. We got used to having one simple meal in a day and just sleep on empty stomachs. All the same we appreciated the old woman.  Our mother took care of us in the best way that she could despite the very poor conditions.  We did not even get the chance to go to school.
All my life I had a dream of having a good big house, where I could have a room of my own, which I would make smart and clean. I was not thinking about a cement and glass house. I would have been satisfied with a smaller and less permanent house. Even that one I never got. I kept on dreaming for a house. But that did not happen until now. I had very many years to wait. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to realize my dream. I now have a three bed room house. I have a spacious room of my own and the children have their rooms. I do not know express my joy. When construction was going on I went to the house every day. I moved in and out of every room and I could wonder whether I was dreaming or it was real that this is my house!!!! I couldn’t wait to enter and live in it. Thank you very much for giving me a great house!!!!!!
When I grew up, I got married to a man whom I loved and we started staying together in a rented house.  I knew that since I have got a companion, we shall be well off. My husband and I worked very hard and we saved some money in the house, planning to look for a better place and build a house of our own. I was happy and looked forward to a good life.  After a few years I had 3 children and even I was 7 months pregnant expecting another baby. I was expecting Peter. One day when I came back from work, I found when my husband had taken all our belongings in the house and also the money that we had worked for and saved for a long time, he only left my clothes.  Since then I have never  heard from him or heard of him.
He left me with the kids in the rent house and I suffered with the children. Feeding and dressing the children was hard enough but paying the monthly house rent was the most complicated.  I was in arrears for many months.  When the situation became worse, I went back to my mother’s house with the family after failing to pay a few months rent.  I promised the land Lord to continue paying until when the debts would be paid up. It took me a long time. I started digging in other people’s plantations with my mum in order to get some food to feed the family.  The idea of putting the children in school was unthinkable. The dream of ever having a house of my own was completely dropped.
During those days I gave birth to a baby boy (Peter), by bad lack, the baby was attacked by Tuberculosis ( T.B),  because in my mother’s  small house we were  staying with my brother who is a smoker. We were congested in the small house and I had no help and no alternative. I took Peter for treatment in the many places that I could afford. I tried some hospitals but in those days I had no money. Peter was at the verge of dying. Good luck came when Ben and Melody took my baby to an intensive care unit; this was through the church of Christ in our area. The baby was cured and he gained his life back. He is now healthy and bouncing.
Then miracles came. The first miracle was that I was going to receive a monthly financial support. I was not even sure about who was so generous to give me this income. I knew this would be enough to give me and my children with my mother a descent life with enough to eat.  I was happy and comfortable. I was not thinking about a house yet. But miracles continued flowing.  Latter on I was told that you were going to build a house for me, haaa,  oh myyy, on that day I was the happiest lady of the day. I was like crazy!!!!
The house has been constructed and we have started staying in it. When I am in my room I hear the boys happily chatting in their room. I smile to myself and just thank God. Sometimes I do cry. For sure sometimes I cannot understand how and why you selected me among all the people… It is amazing. So I have a beautiful spacious house and even the toilet and bathroom were built. I thank you so much for that kind of loving heart that you showered to me and my family. Thank you once again for giving us a descent home to live in. It is a wonderful house. May the Almighty God bless you so much.
I wish you a merry Christmas and a Prosperous new year 2013. I wish you more and more blessings to you and your family.

I remain your friend,
Nakangu Ruth

Her new luxury bathroom

This latrine was dug down to 60 feet!